"[Both Genesis and the Sermon on the Mount seem] to single out the man as the one who lusts. But both men and women are subject to lust. … [One] can participate by presenting [oneself] as an object and attempting to arouse lust."
"…[H]uman sexuality was not created only for procreation. The body, masculine and feminine, has a nuptial meaning: it is capable of expressing the selfless love by which a person becomes a gift. By becoming a gift, the human person fulfills the deepest meaning of his existence.
"The three forms of lust — of the flesh, of the eyes, and the pride of life — all limit and distort the original, nuptial meaning of the body. This distortion takes place in the heart. Outwardly, the body … is still created for communion. But … in the experience of the heart, sexuality no longer seems to aim at communion. The body … has instead become only an object of lust.
"In the state of original innocence, the body was a perfect expression of the spirit. Now, …
"[t]he heart has become a battlefield between love and lust. As lust gains ground, it destroys our ability to experience the nuptial meaning of the body. …
"The human person is the only physical creature created for communion with God. For this reason, the person should never be reduced to an object. At the same time, a person can only discover his true self by making a sincere gift of himself to another. Lust attacks this free, sincere giving. It reduces the person to an 'object for the other,' instead of being 'united with the other' in love.
"The attacks of lust aren't always obvious. Sometimes, under the cover of strong emotions, lust disguises itself as 'love' — still, it remains selfish at the core. Does this mean we should always distrust the heart? No! But we must keep watch over it."
Tanglewood — 2026/08/01-02
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