Book. In the Frankfurt airport on my way to Ireland, I wanted to get something to read on the plane and in restaurants in Ireland. I found a book called Have a Little Faith by Mitch Albom, who wrote Tuesdays with Morrie and a couple of other pretty good books. Of course the title grabbed my attention, and I bought it. It's the parallel stories of his writing the eulogy for his childhood rabbi (at the rabbi's invitation) and his dealings with a reformed drug dealer/addict who was pastor of a small Christian church in Detroit. It was interesting and easy to read. I guess Albom believes that there is a God who leads people to do good things (which I also believe), and that exactly how you express your belief doesn't matter as long as you have a little faith (which I don't quite agree with). By the time I got home, I had finished the book. It has a lot of interesting stories about the rabbi and the pastor and things they did and things that happened to them.
British Couple. Thursday morning at breakfast I exchanged pleasantries with a British couple. If memory serves, they were from Brighton, and some of her family had come from Monaghan. They asked if I knew of any good restaurant for dinner. I mentioned that the best I had been to so far was Andy's, where I had had dinner the previous evening (and it really was quite good). It turns out they were the couple seated near me whom I had heard complaining about slow service. So I mentioned the Westenra Arms. I think they had been there also and found it unsatisfactory. The only other place I had gone for dinner was The Squealing Pig, which was mentioned on the Monaghan website. The dining room was upstairs, the pub downstairs. The food was tasty enough, but definitely not gourmet. I was satisfied with it. So when the man asked how it was I said something like "adequate" to which he replied that when Americans say it's adequate that means it's dreadful. They seemed like nice enough people, but it's too bad that they couldn't be satisfied in places I found quite good. I think in general, when people travel "on holiday" they should be willing to accept that things won't always be like home nor "five star." And to expect anything better than the Westenra Arms or Andy's (neither of which had anything wrong with it IMO) in an off-the-beaten-track place like Monaghan is really unreasonable. I was pleasantly surprised to find anything two places that good. And Thursday evening I had a very good dinner at Master Deery's before meeting someone in the pub who was an expert on local genealogy.
Maybe delays in service seem worse when you're with someone. You have to keep a conversation going while you wait for your food, and you notice the time passing. But when you're alone and have a good book to read, you can get absorbed in it, and occasionally get distracted by the nearby family with active children or the young couple who are clearly on a date, so the time passes quickly.
Battle of the Boyne. After returning to Monaghan from Dublin on Thursday, I was walking from the bus station to the hotel. Beside the street was a small park next to a small lake. A half dozen small children were playing, along with a boy who may have been 14 years of age. Next to the park was a tourist information board with the usual maps of town and surroundings. I was looking to see if it showed the location of the Battle of the Boyne, in which William of Orange defeated James II of England, effectively securing the British throne for the Protestants. (The anniversary, July 12, is celebrated annually by the Orangemen of Northern Ireland.) As I studied the map a boy, no older than 10, asked if he could help. I said what I was looking for, and he called to the older boy. I apologized for the bother and told what I was looking for. He didn't recognize the name of the Battle of the Boyne. I explained a bit, thinking that might help. It rang no bell. I might as well have been talking about some obscure skirmish in the U.S Civil War. It meant nothing to him.
Reflecting on this, I saw it as a hopeful sign. This pivotal Protestant-Catholic battle is no longer something that is part of the everyday culture in a part of Ireland about an hour's drive from the scene and just across the border from Northern Ireland. Perhaps past hostility is finally receding into the past.
Broken Mirror. After the left side mirror got broken in Tipperary, backing up became a problem. The narrow field of vision through the rear window meant that I had no way of seeing anything behind the vehicle to the left side. At the hotel in Limerick, I had no choice but to go head-on into a parking space. Fortunately, there were no problems getting out at midmorning. But subsequently, I took care to park only in spots I'd be able to get out of by driving forward. For example, in parking lots with double rows, I'd be sure to drive through so that I was headed out of a spot.
Belonging. (I had to keep the alliteration going.) As I wrote this post I also looked through some of the earlier posts and I noticed in one of the pictures from Rothenburg you can see someone taking a picture of the Junge Schar. And it reminded me of something I realized from the first time I sat at the table with the Junge Schar. That is, thanks to their welcome, my experience went beyond what the vast majority of tourists have. They see things as outsiders, but I increasingly became a part of what the tourists were looking at. My friendship with Stefan and the others enabled me to experience things in a way that was truly special, and truly a privilege, and truly a highlight of my life. And I'm really grateful to everybody who welcomed me into the Rothenburg "scene."
But I also believe that it is possible for people who are willing to go beyond the safety of the tour group, the hotel, and such to have special interactions with people they can meet as they travel. All it takes is a willingness to talk to "the locals," a willingness to meet them and perhaps even be drawn into what they are doing. Perhaps it is unlikely to go as far as I was able to with the Junge Schar, but good times can be shared and acquaintances and lasting friendships can be formed. Perhaps this is even a lesson that can be applied nearer to home.
Tanglewood — 2026/08/01-02
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